I need help!

So as you can see as you look to the right of my blog... I have very few friends and family... I am pretty sure I have added them on there wrong. How do I add people's links to my blog? I have no idea.. maybe I am doing it right.. i do not know! Please explain to me how to add links to other blogs because i'm sick of going to someone else's blog and clicking on the links I want my own access to your blogs! =-) thank you so much on whoever helps me out!

~lauren

I am blog dumb still...